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Choosing the right life partner
Choosing the right life partner is one of the most important parts of life with many aspects and factors of selection criteria which must be calculated carefully.Error selecting women / girls / women as we are married to a spouse who would have a negative impact on the quality of our lives in the future. Divorce is a very bad choice that can be taken when all the ways and means have been tried to make the relationship did not work well and can be dangerous if left unchecked.
Courtship is an effort to find the right life partner. Courtship is either not doing what it should do married couples. Marital relationship undue it will have a negative impact on the relationship after marriage or after marriage relationship with another girl.
Here is a Candidate Selection Criteria The Good Wife:
1. Mutual Honestly / Dislikes Liar, Love And Faithful
Where there are people who like being lied to. Choose a woman who can hold his words and just going to lie for the sake of a positive family. If you would like lying are dizzy at your wife someday. Women who are loyal to you will always love you and will always be at your side wherever you go and in whatever condition. Love also becomes very important, because love is the basic capital of the marital relationship is good and should have been there since the status was still dating.
2. Attractive Appearance
You should look at women from the physical you like but not as a result alter or grooming thick. Interesting is not always pretty, cute, pretty, menor, sexy, cute, sweet, and so on, but that does not make you hate it when you see it. As much as possible find that if you predicted the coming decades may still be able to make you smile happily when he looked at her face. Do not forget about your own appearance when already married. Do not make him ilfil and so hate you. Finding a life partner that makes us excited as we are viewing our spouses become everyone's dream.
3. Keeping Worship
It's important for the future of your family. Your children will be guided more by the mother. If the mother's inconsiderate behavior not right, then it could be imitated by children. Search woman shalihah / solehah to educate children to become human beings who have a certain pious and influence you to serve better. The couple lives should be useful for his partner.
4. Clever / Smart
Do not look for a mate or a city girl village girl who has intelligence below average. Appearance just outside are just awful in the affairs of the bed and can always be set and may we bobongi, cheating behind him, remarried / remarry, etc. But a foolish woman would not be able to help find solutions at times necessary and may be constrained as long as we live with because it must always obey her husband. Smart wife who could help organize the household and may also help financial / family finances with melakuka sideline or work.
5. Not Materialistic / Not Cewe Matre
Cewe matre'd emang bener aje sea to the song. Do not just find a girl of her beautiful, but from his heart. No matter how much money we can from the work will not be enough to support a wife matre'd not ungrateful. It can be when you have no money and decent work you would be left alone just with the children.
6. Kalem / Emotions Stable Low And Can Be Entertaining
The wife is smiling, gentle, not like angry and not easily stressed to face life's problems is a good wife. Prior to mating and during your dating obliged to observe the emotional, attitudes and behaviors. If your boyfriend is easy once angry outbursts and can not be changed should leave it. Life constantly scolded his wife will make you suffer. A good wife is ISTR can be comforting in times of joy and sorrow in a variety of conditions both to her husband and child. Select also loved his family and our respective families. Looking for a life partner who can keep order during angry couple still love to his partner already scarce once.
7. Healthy Physical And Spiritual
Choose which in terms of physical and mental / psychological and physical good health. Choose a healthy, bright, agile, strong, and does not get sick. In terms of fertility was also important if you want to have offspring. If you are unsure then you should do both when premarital medical examination. Note also if anyone has any family history of the disease can be decreased and can be fatal. Sometimes an illness can be lowered to a child or grandchild.
8. Controllable And Controlling
When the wife did not act in accordance with what we want, speak without emotion that the wife should do what we want and why. Likewise, where we can be criticized wives in our attitude and behavior amicably and good. To do this required the similarity degrees or levels where the husband and isti together in a solid leadership team. Not only the husband and wife who became the leader of just obedient-obedient. Generally, to be the kind of girl this kind is the age sepantar and equally clever.
9. Approval of Parents, Family, Friends And Forth
Conjugal relationship must be supported by the existing oang around us start from the parents, in-laws, friends, relatives, siblings, friends, neighbors, work friends, and others. Emsional marriage without the support of people close may adversely affect future relationships. Clearly if it has not been approved, you must be able to speak well to defend your argument.